It is the adult’s responsibility to provide a manageable
number of toys, each with a specific location for storage, perhaps a shelf,
basket, tray, box, or bag. If you have never been one for “A place for
everything and everything in its place”, now is the time! You must learn this
for the good of your child. Put two-thirds of your family’s toys in storage, out of the
child’s reach. The toys should not be reachable or visible to the child, but
you should be able to grab a toy quickly when your child isn’t looking. If they
haven’t seen a toy for a few weeks or months, it’s like brand new! This is how
you can take a shower or make a phone call in relative peace. Sort through toys and get rid of some. If a toy is
broken, missing pieces, or dangerous, throw it out. If its appearance or sound
is unattractive, donate it. If it’s outgrown and your child no longer uses it
with concentration, give it to or save it for a younger child. If it inspires
loud or violent behavior, get rid of it (the television?). |